toddler mom

Utilising THE HUSBAND!!!

The concept of weekdays and weekends doesn’t exist for me any more!

I don’t remember the last time I sat and read a book on a Sunday afternoon!

REASON: I AM A NEW MOTHER

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And a Working Mother!!!

Thus, the weekdays are all about work and a couple of hours with the baby!

The weekdays usually end at 8:30 PM, when I bring my daughter to sleep in the bedroom and I PASS OUT next to her (only to wake up to rush to work again)!

And, if it’s 8 am and I am still in my pyjamas, then my daughter announces with absolute joy-“today is Deepa mumma’s holiday!” (Read weekends/holidays)

On the holidays, she becomes like a physical extension of me!!!

We do everything together!

In fact, to be precise, I do everything as per her wishes!

Hahahah…..

These weekends are the most fulfilling of all but then by the time it’s 6 pm, my body and mind have given up and I NEED MY ME TIME!

But it was never to be!

Until…….

Until TODAY!!!

What’s so special about today???

The husband returned home from Sea (got a Captain of the ship for a husband)!

The daughter has decided to switch sides and “my papa is always best” is the NEW ANTHEM in my house!

END RESULT:

I am way too smart to sulk over the lost importance!😈😜

I handed over the daughter’s supervision to the husband and nanny took over (thank god for the nanny! Sometimes, I feel I love her more than I love my husband! 😉🤭🤫)

DAY’s stats:

I read almost half my Laini Taylor-Daughter of Smoke and Bone (just the kind of light read I needed)!

I drank my Chai while it was still hot!

Indulged in a shower with another chai in my bath!

But the best was yet to come- I had an hours nap at 4 PM!

At 5 PM was woken up with my daughter sitting on my tummy, saying-

Deepa Mumma time for park and you have to take me to the park! I won’t go to park without you! “

“AND I AM GOING TO GO TO THE PARK FOR SURE”

The honeymoon for today ended but on a wonderful note!

Wonderful note, because, I can’t seem to decide what I want!!!

I love my “me time” and when I get it, I am never too sure about it!🙈🙈

BUT,

Nonetheless,

THE HUSBAND WAS UTILISED TO ITS FULLEST POTENTIAL 😉😉